Lately, I've been trying to do my part in making plans with a new friend. We've only gone out and done something together once (which I initiated) but we had classes together for a long time and now talk daily.
The problem is that my friend would like to do stuff together, but she won't make the plans. When I talked to her about it, she said doesn't have a preference for what we do and is open to doing almost anything, so she rather defer to me making all the plans and she'll go along with whatever I pick.
Is this a bad sign?
Have you ever been, or know someone who has been, in this position? How did it work out in the long-run? Did one or both people end up resentful?
Also, is this kind of behavior on my friend's part indicative of indifference about spending time together...or could it be that she is so willing to see me that she's up for anything?
And why would someone want YOU to make all the plans?
Please share your own experiences/insights.
2007-06-26
06:34:48
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