My husband of 2 years - dated for 8 has been acting strange, most recently - I woke up at 12am and he wasnt home, when i called him to ask where he was he said don't worry about it i don't have to know everything. I'm hurt, we have two kids together (close in age). I'm trying everything I can to save this marriage, I pray and think VERY hard before I speak, I've lost 10 pounds, I put more effort into my housecleaning and beauty routines. I try to have a hot meal on the table by 7 ( I work 40 hrs/wk) I want my husband to be happy, but how much of myself am I supposed to compromise to do this. He doesn't help with feedings, doesn't come to church, just hangs out and plays on myspace. I'm very tired and need advice from a non-involved party. Our friends and family have clearly started to take sides. I don't want a divorce, he doesn't want counseling, I'm so confused and upset.
2007-06-13
08:00:31
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Marriage & Divorce