My fiance and I have a great relationship. There is an age difference, but that doesn't affect the quality of our relationship, other than this issue.
When we got engaged 3 1/2 years ago, I agreed that I didn't want anymore children. He has 3 grown children and I have a now 8 year old (I had her when I was 18). It seemed to make sense, at the time.
But then my sister had a baby, my best friend had a baby, his daughter had a baby, I babysit babies every so often, etc.
And now, I want a baby.
I've told him directly that I want a baby. That's the end of the conversation. He has no response.
I recently got a IUD and it was expensive (but more convenient then Depo)
So I don't know what to do. Do I have the UID taken out and tell him that if he doesn't want a baby, he should do something about it?
Do I stick with a 3 1/2 agreement to not have any more kids when he still hasn't married me? And grow old with only one child and admire the babies around me?
Thanks!
2007-06-11
18:04:46
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