All categories - 11 June 2007

You are not technically pregnant then. Then I look at the "your baby week by week" and I did not have a baby in week 1 by this calender....CONFUSED! If I go by those calenders I am 6 weeks tomorrow but If I go by conception I am only 4 weeks. Which is it?

2007-06-11 04:48:21 · 6 answers · asked by Cash, Gage and Jax's Mom 4 in Pregnancy

Please any thing you know about it, web sites, blog, anything. Kisses!

2007-06-11 04:48:16 · 2 answers · asked by Yoyo 3 in Standards & Testing

me and my bf went out for over a year. we broke up a few weeks ago, and now he's being so ******* cruel. We were friends for a while after the break up, and were even talking about getting back together, now he's hanging out with this stupid ugly fat senior chick, and flirting with her, and talking crap about me with her. he told me he thought she was prettier and cooler, and i asked him if he really thought that, and he said he didnt want to talk crap about her so he wouldnt answer. I feel so heartbroken, why is he being so mean?

2007-06-11 04:48:12 · 13 answers · asked by Pixie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 04:48:02 · 5 answers · asked by Mr. Kite 2 in Fish

Just want to see if someone i know could be killing themself. they are on painkillers for pain, obviously. but taking like 4 a day over the course of 4 years + what kind of problems will they run into? She said that sometimes she hears a rapid thumping (light) on left side of her chest below the lung. THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP

2007-06-11 04:47:59 · 12 answers · asked by BWM 2 in Pain & Pain Management

2007-06-11 04:47:50 · 20 answers · asked by foreignclown 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here goes….

I have four children (2 biological (15 & 7)and 2 step (7 and 10) all boys). My mother singles out my biological 7 year old and babies him and actively shows favoritism toward him. She also comes to my house and when seeing the boys, will ask them to ask me if we can go to the movies or go out to eat. Or she will ask them to ask me if they can have a snack before dinner or lunch. I think that is putting them in the middle and have told her NOT to do it anymore. I told her that the grandparent has different rules and when the grandparent it the authority figure (when I nor wife are around) she can spoil them rotten(different rules when with grandparents) but when around me or my wife, we decide what happens with them.

She even actively scolds me in front of them for disciplining “her pick” if she doesn’t think he needed to be disciplined. Given the fact that this is my house and I (my new wife and I) have custody of all four boys, I think she is way out of line and have told her that this is my house and not to question me in front of them with I am doing that. She also tells her friends and some of my family that she is supporting me because she takes all of us out to eat and shopping a lot.

I don’t have a job near as good as hers and she knows I can’t afford to go out to eat or go shopping or to the movies all the time. I nor the children am not in NEED of food or anything else, she just buys things for us that “makes life easier” . Like she bought a riding lawn mower for me to use with the condition that I mow her yard too. The mower she later told me she wanted to gibe to my great uncle. I said, you bought it, you can do with it what you want. She said she would replace it for me. I spent 10 hours going from store to store looking for the best deal on models, features and prices. After that work was does and presented to her, she asked if I would rather have a Zero-Turn mower (about 3 times as expensive) I said sure, who wouldn’t. But it is so much more. She wanted to get the more expensive Zero-Turn for me so I said, OK. She put it in my name. She also had paid for me to have Dish network installed and paid for it for six months for me for my x-mas present one year.

I have told her before that I am not comfortable with her spending that much on me because I want to be independent ( I am now 40). She now has told her friends that she is tired of supporting me and wants me to stand on my own two feet. She has told them and my family that I am asking her to take us out for food and clothing and lawn equipment. I have told her in the past that when she is in my home or with me, I am the authority figure for my children (all four of them). I have also told her to stop actively showing favoritism to the one child. I know it is hard to love non biological children the same as biological, but I have asked her to not SHOW it. She still does. She still contents that she is supporting me. I have asked her not to spend any more money on me. She still calls and wants to go out to eat when she knows I don’t have the money to do it.

Now fast forward about a month. When I found out about what she is telling her friends and my/our family about me, I told her she is no longer welcome in my home and if she cannot quit showing favoritism, she is no longer allowed around the children. The last time we were together eating ice-cream, she snuck a bite of ice-cream to the “favorite”. My wife saw it and said “he does not need any more ice-cream”. As we all walked out of the store, she did it again and I gave her an evil look. My wife confronted her about it and now my mother is REALLY mad at my wife. Wife hates my mother. Now my mother is siding with my ex-wife trying to take my children away from me and give them to my ex since my ex said my mother can see the kids anytime she wants.

Am I wrong for how I feel about me being a parent? Am I wrong for what I did and said? I would love her to be in their lives and we (me and wife) have begged her to meet with us to work this out for the kids sake. She refuses. I refuse to let them be around someone who is blatently disrespectful for me as a person and me as a parent.

2007-06-11 04:47:49 · 22 answers · asked by Michael G 1 in Family

I never really understood that...

2007-06-11 04:47:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Men's Health

We were working on our graphics projects (about film adverts), when I noticed that his was all set in Comic Sans. I pointed out that he shohuldn't use it, as it is childish and unprofessional.

He remained unconvinced, so I showed him http://www.bancomicsans.com/home/ and http://www.google.co.uk/search?q=%22comic+sans+is%22 . He's seriously failing to realise how terrible Comic Sans is, especially for use in a graphics project. His best defence of the font was "F*** you, Comic Sans is awesome!".

Any help?

2007-06-11 04:47:27 · 4 answers · asked by Peter B. 2 in Drawing & Illustration

2007-06-11 04:47:20 · 10 answers · asked by vivvy_x 2 in Hair

I am 51 and it isn`t my 1st marriage,i have this beautiful somewhat backless sexy long black dress i`d like to wear getting married,our wedding is taking place in Las Vegas everything there is ready and waiting for the big day,the only real hesitation i have is my future-in-laws have never met me face-to-face and they are ol` time baptists the ceremony will be video-taped for all the family to see should i be concerned about this?Or should i do as i see fit after all it is my special day and i am me?

2007-06-11 04:47:05 · 12 answers · asked by maxine101 1 in Weddings

OK, as much as I think abortion is sickening, and I cannot believe that a society as advanced as ours allows such a barbaric idea, what do you think about this?

OK, abortion is legal in this country right now. I, along with a vast number of people in this country, want to make it illegal, or at least leave it up to the states. I have heard many REALLY bad arguments for abortion on here, but there is a new argument for abortion:

What if the woman who is pregnant is not fit to be a mother?

So I have a proposed solution. Keep abortion legal, with one rule: Once you get an abortion, you will also be sterilized for life.

It will SEVERELY cut down on the amount of abortions, and a woman who is obviously not fit to become a mother, well, will never become a mother.

And as sick of an idea this is, I find it a little more acceptable than just killing millions of babies. But that's just me. You think this idea is sick, too? Well, let's just MAKE ABORTION ILLEGAL!

2007-06-11 04:47:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics

I mean if God tells you to ask for a thing you want him do for you at once what will it likely be?

2007-06-11 04:46:53 · 26 answers · asked by Bobo 3 in Philosophy

2007-06-11 04:46:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

I broke up with my boyfriend of ten years over the weekend. I am very sad but he does a lot of mean and hurtful things to me. Now my question is if he loves me he may change his ways and come back right? Im not going to answer any calls or messages from him unless he apolozes profusely for things he has done in the past. Am I making a mistake? I'm scared that he may realize that he doesn't love me. He didn't want to break up, he just wanted to take a break. I feel like I need to just put my foot down and not call him and not answer him, because I feel that is the only way I will be able to know for sure if you he loves by trying to win me back. Am I wrong to think that? Anyone ever been in my situation? I really appreciate everyones opionions. Thanks.

2007-06-11 04:46:49 · 17 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Singles & Dating

how often is the regular?

2007-06-11 04:46:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Men's Health

2007-06-11 04:46:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

Other than being here asking and answering questions, what kind of activities do you enjoy doing?

2007-06-11 04:46:33 · 38 answers · asked by Roxas of Organization 13 7 in Polls & Surveys

lets say you have a son or daughter who are strong Christians you told them not to talk about God or try to save you, they do so anyway you kept punishing them and they still did it what would you do.

2007-06-11 04:46:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

P&S

2007-06-11 04:46:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-06-11 04:46:03 · 3 answers · asked by jlombar 1 in Philadelphia

2007-06-11 04:45:57 · 5 answers · asked by Roger A 1 in Skin Conditions

My family has owned a piece of land for 40 years. Gifted to my wife and I to build our house. Divorcing after only one year of marrige. Is she entitled to the value of the land?

2007-06-11 04:45:46 · 11 answers · asked by vncforte 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 04:45:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-06-11 04:45:40 · 5 answers · asked by olivia n 1 in Family

My wife tells me I better not ever go to jail. I played baseball all my life so I've got a bubble. Whats with the enfactuation of it?

2007-06-11 04:45:33 · 10 answers · asked by The Gooch 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-06-11 04:45:32 · 31 answers · asked by ♥Saw Dust♥ 7 in Polls & Surveys

I just read the featured question that asks what your lifelong dream was. One person answered and said her lifelong dream was to get married, have children and be a stay at home wife and mother. She's married with 4 kids and happy to live her dream. Her answer has recieved 22 thumbs downs.

I'm not saying a woman should be held back from working if that is what she really wants, but why hold her back if her dream is to be a stay at home house wife? does it hurt the image of women in our society if a woman just wants to take care of her family?

My wife is a stay at home wife and mother and its what we both want. If she did work we would both be more stressed trying to take care of housework, our daughter would be raised by strangers in a day care, and she could barely make enough to pay for day care, so why should she work?

I'd like insight into why people fell it is wrong for a womans dream job to be homemaker. Its still a vital role in society isnt it?

2007-06-11 04:45:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

or is it still early where you are?

2007-06-11 04:45:27 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

when having side effects does it means the pill is working?

2007-06-11 04:45:18 · 1 answers · asked by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 in Trying to Conceive