I had an affair over a year ago when I was out of state working for a month and a half (the affair lasted about 3 weeks), we broke up after that for a couple months, then got back together.
He has cheated on me twice (that I know of) about 3 years ago, I let it go and forgave him, however he said he never had s*x with anyone else, just kissed so what he did was way different.
We have been married for 6 years, together for 8, I am 23 and he is 27. I still love him but he is not the same, I can tell he doesn't really love me, he won't talk about it, what are some things I can do to help make him love me again? I want this marriage to work, we have a 5 year old daughter together.
I do not work anymore, I stay at home with our daughter. I already do all the "wife" things like make his lunch for work, have him supper ready when he gets home, keep the house clean, I rub his back when he's going to sleep. I do alot for him and still I get nothing.
I have put up with a lot from this man and I mess up one time and he can't seem to get over it. He has done much worse if we add up everything. So how can I get him to realize that it was a mistake, it's over, I love him and I only want to be with him? I want him to forgive me and try to find the love he use to have for me again, how can I work on doing that? He doesn't want to go to marriage counseling. Any suggestions? No critisisim please.
Thank you
2007-06-07
09:44:58
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