fiance cheated on me while we were engaged. i didnt find out until a few months after we bought a house together, one that i could not afford on my own. i found out that he had been calling another girl by looking at his phone records. i asked him if he was cheating, and he told me no he wasnt. I did not really believe him, but i didnt want to just leave and lose everything without totally knowing the truth. Well, we went to counseling to address the fact that he had been calling this other girl. He lied to the counselor, and he lied to me, still saying nothing happened. I kept asking him, and 9 months later he finally admitted to having sex with the girl 10 times. We have a child together, and i stayed with him trying to work it out. we went back to counseling 2 times after that, but i felt that we needed more. We did get married a few months later, but my now husband refuses to go back to counselng. i've known truth for 1 yr . when i try to talk about it, he cuts me off, ignores
2007-05-22
03:36:09
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eliza l
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Marriage & Divorce