I met this girl, she is wonderful, great personality, and I sort of like her. We are both looking for a long-term relationship (eventually marriage) and that is something we have agreed upon.
Knowing that we are both commitment-oriented, we agreed to get to know each other first to see how compatible we are before jumping into next levels (normal course of a relationship) and may be with time we can make a commitment.
What really worries me is that the other day she was distracted and not herself, so I asked her what is wrong? She opened up to me and told me that she is afraid of getting hurt if what we have here doesn't work and she is falling hard for me. Well, I kept a moment of silence, then i told here that this is how life works, you try your best but what happens happens. I told her that i might get hurt too.
I really don't know what to do?
-should I slow down with her. (less calls, Less e-mails, less time together)
-should i tell her that we are still knowing each other
2007-05-12
23:11:26
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