My wife and I didn't have sex for 8mos of her pregnancy and for 5mos after...while she was pregnant I didn't bug her too much about it, and since she had pain associated with the c-section, I left her alone for a few months after the birth. When I finally brought it up, she got defensive and it took a couple more months before we had sex. We did plenty of talking...she was having body image issues and I did my best to ease her mind and let her know how attractive I find her. We agreed that having two young kids sex would be less frequent, she thought 2-3x a month was ok, I thought 3-4, but we were in the same ballpark. It got better briefly, now we've had sex once in the last month, and last night at midnight, when I tried to get romantic, she said I'd have to approach her earlier. This is somewhere on the long list of excuses. We have busy lives, but I am very helpful around the house and with the kids. I feel like we could make time once a week. Any suggestions? (no cheating)
2007-05-08
02:53:09
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Killer B
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Marriage & Divorce