ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out now for over a year and honestly things are going really well. we love and care about eachother alot and know almost everything about eachother. so after a while i asked her what she thought when she masturbates and she wouldnt tell me. i didnt press the issue because its not to important to me or anything. but today she decided to tell me. as it turns out she thinks about me cheating on her, like having sex with other people. im not quite sure what to make of this. she says she likes the pain that i causes. she also just said "pain is love. i need chaos." i dont know what to think or say or anything. she feels like she is so messed up. its not a big deal it dosent bother me and frankly i am just glad that she thinks about me at all and not her ex girlfriend like i thought she might. i dont want her to think these things but i dont know what to do or say or antyhing, any help is greatly appriciated.
2007-05-02
06:48:47
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