My spouse has a problem admitting when he is wrong. he instead blames everything on me. he is very bossy and very head strong. he is also very sensitive to anything that i say or do, but will do the same thing to me and battle over whether or not it is wrong. we fight all the time and i am so unhappy. the problem is that i do still love him and even though it seems like it is not possible, he is not all bad all the time plus we have kids and i don't want them to go through a divorce. we do not fight in front of the kids, but i am sure they can feel the tension. i have tried everything to get him to understand how i feel and he says he wants to change to make things better but nothing ever happens. i don't know what to do and now, the stress is affecting my health and i am getting sick from it. we've tried counseling and he makes changes for a while, but they never last. i have changed how i do things, but now feel like i am the only one giving in and am losing who i am. ideas???
2007-04-26
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