My mom is helping my grandfather while he is temporarily unable to drive, etc. She has a VERY painful shoulder condition and he is quite demanding. She told him she needs one day a week to herself to relax, and/or get her own stuff done. He told her "I am not happy that you want a day a week to yourself where I cant call you" She said of course she would be available if there was an emergency but she does need some down time. He said "thats fine, any time you cant do something is ok, if I call you and you cant do something its ok to say no, but I dont want to be told ahead of time that you wont be available at all on a particular day." He wants ONLY her to help him. She has plans all day tomorow. She thought it would be more considerate to let him know ahead of time, but he says no, I dont like it presented like that. So, now tomorow, he is going to ask her to grocery shop, etc, and she will unable to do it. He alos likes to throw things back in her face that he did for her before.
2007-04-21
10:25:53
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