my boyfriend and i have been together for one year. he's 21 and im 20. im going to university and he is working for his dad's business. he's been saying he wants to to go the army for a few months but he never fully went through with it. i told him if he went that i wouldn't stay with him b/c it would be too hard. we wouldn't even be with each other,and i would worry he was going to die everyday and get mentally/physically hurt. i told him i would do anything for him. he ended up going behind my back and signing up. i love him with all of my heart and i know he wants to do this, but i don't think its fair to me to wait for the next 4 years. i put him before everything, and i feel like he put what he wanted over me. in a month he's leaving for bootcamp anyways. the last few days we broke up he didn't call, and i went over to his house yesterday and he said he will understand my decision, but he really wants me to try b/c he loves me. I don't feel like he really cares if we break up.
2007-04-20
06:50:42
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