I would like a woman's opinion on why women talk about wanting men to open up more, be more upfront, show or of a caring side even as just friends yet almost always it seems when a guy tries to do that it changes things, makes things different, becomes complicated, he's after something, or there's suddenly pressure? I have female friend I admit I care for whom I haven't seen often & a while back was going through some rough times. She'd talk about being unhappy, off track for sometime, not herself, missing me, our friendship, thinking of me even when in a " happy committed" relation let alone when that relationship didnt work yet how alone she feels even as busy as she claimed to be or around all these friends she supposeably had yet thank me for caring, complaint about my needing to learn to open up, tell me while she's going through all these things & feeling alone how nice it is to know someone cares yet as much as she claims to want to hangout or miss a friend she's know for years
2007-04-20
06:58:36
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