My wife and I are talking about divorce. I still love her, however, she's told me that she no longer attracted to me and that we have grown apart. I haven't always been the best husband, but I've never been abusive.
We've been seperated for about a year and half now, I was deployed to Afghan for 8 months and then 3 months later I left for Korea. We haven't been togethor for about 2 years now.
I really don't want a divorce, however, she's made it evident that we'd never be close again. She has attempted to be friendly for years but she keeps becoming distant again. She was abused when she was a teen at home. I got used to her being distant.
The problem now is that I've been in military for 20 years now, married to her the whole time. I've put her through school, she has a Master's degree and has a civil service job with retirement benefits.
I've asked her about my retirement, whether she plans to try to take it, she never replies.
What does everyone think?
2007-04-15
00:42:33
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