Am mid 20's and going through a divorce (strains of long distance relationship led to her infidelity). The only person I've really been able to talk to about this outside of family is an amazing young lady at work. We were already quite close but this brought us much closer. It culminated in us kissing for the first time around 5 - 6 weeks ago and we've both told each other several times we love each other. Problem is she is clearly torn. She's been in a 4-year relationship, is engaged, has a house, etc. etc. and doesn't want to hurt her fiance. I know the right thing would be to keep my distance until she knows what she wants, but there is such a strong feeling of attraction between us that it's proving very difficult. She's told me she owes it to him to make things work, yet tells me she has strong feelings for me and that I'm always on her mind. What should I do? What should she do? Both of our heads are a complete mess.
2007-04-15
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Marriage & Divorce