I think about 99% of the people in the world (myself included) would put beauty before personality. By this, I mean we don't want a relationship with people that we don't find physically attractive. Our brain produces dopamine when we are in a relationship (which gives us the feeling of adrenline rush, loss of appetite, and many other love sypmtoms), which can lasts up to about 12 years (or something like that).
Of course, most of us also want someone with an attractive personality along with the good looks. But since we fall for people who we think is beautiful (physically), then after thier beauty fades (as with age), so would our "love" feelings for them (logically speaking).
People do get attached to each other over time, but no matter how attached we are to someone, we won't have the same love feelings for them as we once did after thier beauty is gone. Since love is an attraction to beauty, and it would not last, then true "love" doesn't really exist then, right?
2007-04-11
22:38:58
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