what should i do? it almost seems like he's bipolar.
he gets extremely upset, jealous, suspicious, and annoyed for
absolutely NO reason (i'm not kidding, and i'm not being defensive). example: he'll ask me to call him at 9am the next day. so, I call at 9am and he screams at me for waking him up.
so then i remind him that he asked me to call, and he yells that i should have known he would be sleeping and the ringtone on his phone is too loud. so, diplomatically, i say: "why don't you call me when you wake up, since you want to sleep right now?"
then he'll accuse me of not wanting to talk to him or of having something more important to do. eeek! i've tried not being so submissive when he acts that way, and it only makes the situation worse. other times he is so sweet and tells me he knows he only gets angry in the morning because he's so tired and he's angry at himself and he wants to change. he'll cry and tell me he doesn't know what to do to change. what should I do?
2007-04-11
22:30:44
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