My husband down plays things that I say. If I tell him I made a comment to him, but he was on his laptop and he probably did not hear me, he says to me "I did not hear you say anything, You did not say anything." I Even though I know what happened and what I did say. And he makes me feel like I have to defend myself. We got into tthis huge arguement last night about this. Lately my husband downs plays things I say, I say I'm doing this for this reason and he tries to tell me why I'm really doing it (which he makes out to be some kind of selfish or my way issue). I feel like he doesn't know me. I've also noticed that in the last month or so he has been talking with his exgirlfriend, who is just his friend. We were seperated for 3 months during a move, and he comes back to me treating me like this. He down plays, my thoughts does not listen to me..but also has no problem wanting to have sex. PLEASE HELP EXPLAIN.
2007-04-11
03:55:11
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Marriage & Divorce