of very little contact following my parents divorce and any contact that was actually had was rather cold/hostile. She's recently asked me to be her maid-of-honor when she gets re-married. I told her I wasn't sure, that it was kind of fast for me considering all that's happened between us. She says she understands that, to a point, and that she's been my mother for 20 years and it would mean a lot to her. I just don't know which would be the wisest decision. I really don't know how much I even want to attend the wedding let alone be her m-o-h; it'd probably be better for our mending relationship if I just did it, but we really haven't done a lot yet to let it mend. I know it's been years, but it still hurts when I think about it, but for the most part I just can't feel that mad or upset about it anymore at least not anywhere near to the degree that I used to feel, so maybe I should just let it go. What do you think?
2007-04-11
04:45:09
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