i hear all the times people say "looks don't matter". i really belive they do. If 2 guy's approach a girl in the exact same way and one is just average and the other is considered "attractive" then the results will be different, even if they are equally nice, confident, polite, etc... i know coming from a guy. this is not to be shallow but if you're going to spend a lot of time with someone then they have to be appealing. I think the term "shallow" is way too overused when refering to guys. It is not shallow to want to date someone who is good-looking, and most people have something about them that is attractive. Looks is what captures the eye at first and subcontiously, i feel, all people feel that way no matter what they say. The first time you meet someone, you make a judgement in your head about their appearance without even noticing sometimes. After that first judgement though, it is ALL personality which captures the heart
This is just an opinion, guys/girls, your thoughts?
2007-04-09
16:00:07
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Mikey P
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