I am 35- he is 55- we were best friends then had a relationship. He had a big crush on me at first- as in "you made me feel again"- but I was fresh out of a relationship and was very slow to react- he hung in there and I did eventually come around and fell in love- then he suddenly bolted- he accepted a date with someone else- THEN broke up with me- instead of breaking up first- then accepting a date. Now I am being played- as in he's making me seem like I am wrong (I did call him a mean name- so I do have guilt) But I just put it all together- he wasn't honest - ugh- he once cheated on his wife- many many years ago-once a cheater always a cheater? How do I move on? You'd think at 35 I'd know but it just stinks when it happens again- I am not perfect but now neither is he- I am begging him for friendship- need words of encouragement- cause I know better- we will never go back to what we had- oh - what does it get harder?
2007-03-31
02:04:09
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Marriage & Divorce