Everytime I plan to get together with family and one of my step-siblings is involved, he always insists on changing the plans to suit his needs at the last minute. He is more of a partier than the rest of us, so maybe he thinks nothing of insisting that a whole bunch of his friends tag along, or insisting that we go out to a bar when someone has planned a party at home. This has happened with him several times now. He acts like he has no concern for other people's plans, and if other people do not want to go out, he calls them "boring." I like going out to bars, and have several times with him, but I don't like doing it if I'm planning a party and it's supposed to be at home. I'm having a birthday party this weekend and setting it up is costing me a lot of money. I only invited my closest friends and fam. Once again, he's asking if we can go out to a bar with his friends instead. Is this just rude or oblivious? How do I deal with this? (I yelled at him about it on New Year's)
2007-03-28
03:55:01
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