I dated a girl for a year who I honestly thought was my "one". We were very close friends for a long while before we started dating, and were both very comfortable with each other during the relationship. After a year, she decided she felt I wasn't the "one" for her. Totally wrecked me.
About four months after this, as I'm still bumming, but coming out the other side of those feelings, my best friend asks me if I mind if he and the ex (Who I maintained a friendship with) go out. I love him, and I love the girl, but what an absolutely hellish situation to be put in!
I personally feel that he should have known better than to even ask, he should have presumed from the start that she was off limits. Barring that, she should have known better (remember, we stayed good friends) than to let this become a possibility. I gave him my blessing, but I've never totally gotten over his audacity in that moment. I feel I should have told him to jump off a cliff.
What would you have done?
2007-03-14
19:36:47
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Robert
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