I'm sort of old fashioned, while i'm not sure I want children i do know that it's a good possiblity one day and I know that I do want to get married. The man that i'm currently with, and have been with for some time does not really ever want to get married and NEVER wants to have kids. He has diabetes and doesn't want to pass it to his children, so adoption would be his only option and he's told me that he's not even sure he would want that. So I know that staying with him would mean no kids and likely no marriage.
I do love him, but these things are also important to me. I understand his desire to not pass on illness to his kids, or as he puts it causing them to suffer but it still makes me a bit disheartened.
... basically i don't know how to feel about this.
2007-02-23
17:20:57
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attila
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Marriage & Divorce