Okay, seriously, only people who have experience in this answer. My step daughter is 10 (I have been living with her since she was 4-weekends, all holidays, two days a week, and 2 weeks+ in the summer). The problem is that I still cannot stand to always have my schedule revolve around her and what she wants. No matter what my husband and I want to do,he has to schedule it around her. It annoys me in the worst way. But the thing that makes it wose is the fact that she is 9 and she acts like she is 3-and her dad treats her as if she is 3. He still does everything for her, cuts up her food, etc. He will not even make her keep her room clean, much less do any other chores. She even informed me that she would never lift a finger to do a chore. She also does not listen to anything we tell her to do. On the rare occassion when he does tell her to do something she just ignores and then he just lets her get her way. She dictates what we do, eat, watch, etc. Please tell me how you would deal..
2007-01-31
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