Ok been happily married 16 yrs to a great guy who is sweet,loving and VERY good to me well anyways last yr between january 11 and march 11 no sex(he didnt intiate at all)but in middle of febrary 1 night when he thought i was sleeping(HE WAS ON COUCH WATCH TV AND I WAS IN BED BOTH IN SAME ROOM)i saw him masturbating.The next day i told him what i saw and at first he denied it then admitted it and said "i was thinking of u"(have my doubts about that)U see january 11 we had sex and i got tired of intiating MOST of the time so i thought i would wait for him but a month went by but nothing then i saw him masturbating so i figured if he would rather do that then anything with me then let him so another month went by before we didnt anything..And no the answer isnt cheating cause i know the man he is a good guy,a great husband and wouldnt hurt me like that..He said he couldnt give me a reason for no sex for 2 months..So my question is was i partly to blame for no sex for 2 months.
2007-01-31
08:00:53
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lauren l
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Marriage & Divorce