what do u do when u like someone and u know two other girls that like him but they are prettier and skinnier than u and u think why would the guy notice me if he has these good options..i feel really sad!
2007-01-31 08:01:03 · 29 answers · asked by 2pacgal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps. i am not fat fat, i just have big hips and thighs.
2007-01-31 09:10:00 · update #1
Well just because they are skinnier than you doesn't mean he would like them better. Only a dog wants a bone sweetheart. Secondly, whose to say they are prettier than you are. And if they are, that doesn't mean they have good personalities...Just because you THINK these girls are more attractive doesn't mean he will find them more attractive than you. Don't you ever feel sad about something like that. You have a lot to offer.
2007-01-31 08:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't feel sad honey!!!Just because in your eyes theses girls are beautiful doesn't mean that he feels the same way, he may not be attracted to him. Then again, if he doesn't notice you now chances are he never will. There is someone out there who thinks you're the most beautiful girl he's ever seen, no one else holds a candle to you. All girls are beautiful, there is something beautiful in everyone. You're looks may not be all that flattering to you, but they are to someone. Don't be so quick to down yourself. If you don't have confidence or believe in yourself than no one will. You have to stand tall, put your nose up in the air, and never subtle. He may pick those other girls but that can't be something that breaks you. He's just a guy, someone not even worth your time if he doesn't notice you the way you are. Move on. Focus on other things besides boys, when you least expect it and when you're ready you'll meet the one for you. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-31 16:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence young one you must have confidence. I have always been a plus sized girl and have never had a problem getting a man. And not just the men that like plus sized women. The men I've dated have also dated some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. Hecks there was a time or two that I wondered why in the world he'd pick me after dating someone that beautiful. But as he told me, I am equally beautiful and unlike hers my beauty extended to my inside where as her's was skin deep.
Although younger guys are more into what their friends will say many young men and grown alike are independent enough to go for what they like and not peer pressure. A man likes a woman that is confident, poised, intelligent, pretty (not necessarily model beautiful), she must keep her self up (not skinny but carry herself well), she has to be independent yet knows how to lean on and depend on her man. In a nut shell he's looking for someone that he mentally and physically connects with. For the record that is not usually the prettiest or skinniest girl at the party.
So keep your head up and remember you are worthy of the best so don't settle just because you think it's all you can get. You can have it all Trust me, I've had it my whole life and I don't consider myself the prettiest and definitely not the skinniest but my men have all considered me beautiful and sexy. Find you a man that appreciates you for you.
STAY POSITIVE AND STAY STRONG!
2007-01-31 16:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Playfull 3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel exactly the same way. I like this guy and so does another girl who is prettier and more popular than me. I've heard she's gonna ask him out. I am way shy so it's hard to talk to him. But you need to just go up and start a conversation. Say anything, even something like just asking for the time. Once you start flirting he'll get to know you better. And if those girls get to him first then forget about him. Those girls seem like fake plastic model girls. If he likes girls like that then he's definitly not gonna make a good boyfriend. Hey it's his loss!
2007-01-31 16:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by xoluvyaxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww.... just because the other two girls are skinnier or prettier doesn't mean that you don't have qualities that shine more than that. Chin up and look inside yourself for the self-confidence you need. Guys like confidence even more than a skinny girl!
2007-01-31 16:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by A B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how many other girls like a guy, if he really likes you, then he will like you. If he picks a girl just because of her appearance, then he is shallow and you wouldn't want someone like that anyway. But if a girl is prettier and he choose her for other reasons than just her looks, then you have to accept this and nothing to do with you. Try and work on your self esteem and you will be admired more for it. Good luck to you!
2007-01-31 16:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should you give up under such considerations ?
Good gracious, there are still boys on this earth interested in plump girls with a healthy look !!! The physical does not make it all. You may be a beautiful one mentally. Keep being self-confident and put a big smile on your face: boys like cheerful girls.
2007-01-31 16:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are superficial. If you feel good about yourself then that will show. Guys are attracted to confident females that know who they are and where they're going. Your contributions go way past hips and thighs....if the guy you like is dazzled by looks you may not want him anyway.
2007-02-08 14:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by redheadedemt_1972 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sad girl!! First of all don't worry about them other girls. Just be yourself. If the guy doesn't pick you or doesn't notice you then that's his lost. Always have confidence about yourself because someone will like you for who you are!! Put a smile on that face!! :-)
2007-01-31 16:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont give up. Please. You just show him your amazing personality, make him laugh and give him good conversation. From experience guys end up wanting to be with the girl who entertains them and can have a stimulating conversation with them over the chick who looks good on their arm.
If he goes for them over you based on looks alone, he is not someone you should be wastin ur time with anyway, be thankful you found out sooner than later and mover on.
Good Luck. And never let someone else (wether intentional or not) make you feel less about yourself.
2007-01-31 16:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by Kamryn's Mommie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋