my husband and i are having real problems in our marriage. he continuallly talks to a girl at his work, and is getting sms messages all the time. he drinks all weekend and doesnt want to spend any quality time with me or our baby. just before christmas this came to ahead, and we were sorting it out, now it seems to be getting bad again - he wont see a counsellor, and is blaming me for everything. i am trying hard to save our marriage, but feel that he is wanting to be in his 20s again, with no committment or any responsibilities. he says he is not cheating on me, but i just dont know what to think - i found a condom in his wallet. i feel so alone, have no one to talk to about this. can anyone give me some ideas on what i should do? i am absolutely heartbroken by all this - i love this man, and have been with him for 10 years. I just dont know what to do.
2007-01-31
12:37:09
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Marriage & Divorce