My boyfriend started showing a different face after 1 and a half months. He wants to make a familyplan under my mobile phone, he asks for really expensive vacations and when I tell him the reason why I cannot, he shows anger and frustration. He kicks the walls, throws objects around me and he wants to limit me seeing my friends. When I talk to a friend on the phone even for a minute, he perceives that as an insult and disrespect. He yells at me when I do not do the things his way. He always makes the things problematic and suffocates me. I do not have space anymore, sometimes I feel like I am getting suffocated and I told him that I do not want to baby-sit him. I will stand by him in good moments and bad moments bu he doesn't want to understand i do have a day job and hobbies and he wants me to cut all these. I think I love him but I am not sure if this is love from his perspective. I am feeling down most of the time besides good moments. Is this love?
2007-01-11
01:14:13
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender