I'm pretty introverted for the most part, but I got out of a long-term relationship a few months ago, and I'd like to start seeing new people, but I get insanely nervous just talking to guys again! Even just chatting with a guy I know over AIM is enough to make me feel anxious and nauseated.. It's not the 'talking to them' part, it's the part where they say something similiar to "we should hang out some time", and I don't want them to think I don't like them, but I don't really want to hang out with them anytime soon, even if I do like them in general.
I think I'm worried about what guys would expect from the "hanging out" part. It's weird, because I'm friends with this guy on a casual basis, and without me thinking that he wants a relationship of some kind, I don't think I'd be nervous. I guess I'm just waiting for things in my life to go back to normal, or maybe I'm making excuses for myself to avoid talking to a really nice guy, haha. Man, I suck.
2007-01-03
14:54:03
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