what he thought of being a father, than when he says he's not ready to be a father, she feels rejected and leaves, only to tell everyone that he abandoned her?
Over the last 18-years, I've seen these cases numerous times, most often involving college age kids. Often, the woman will disappear, only to come back years later with a retroactive child support order, 5-23 years worth, depending on the state laws.
I had a case involving a San Diego Navy Commander, hit 15 years or $85,000 worth. At the time, he was married with 4 children, and living in a 5-bedroom house. They took the house, all their savings, 55% of his gross income, and 10% of hers. They had to move into a 2-bedroom, on base apartment. The mother was someone he dated in college, who suddenly moved back to her parents, and wouldn't see him anymore. She said that he should have known she was already pregnant. The order was upheld by the State Supreme Court.
2006-12-31
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