My bf and I have been living together for almost 2 yrs. He has 3 kids that live with their mom. The 2 younger ones are 7&9, the older is 16. I work nights and my bf works days so we dont see much of each other during the week. His kids come EVERY weekend from Friday thru Sunday at 9pm and almost every day off from school. They also come every break, and for an extended time during the summer. Their mother doesnt want them around. This is causing a strain on our relationship because we NEVER have alone time. He really expects me to cook and clean for them, do their laundry etc. My daughter is 16, so I feel like I shouldnt have to take care of little kids anymore. Is this excessive for us to have them all the time like this, or am I just being a bad person? I do like them, but I feel I am just being a substitute mom for his kids. Would other women do this? If I talk to him about it he just accuses me of not liking his kids. I just want to know what other women would do?
2006-12-26
19:14:02
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