These are some things he does...emails several times a day. Drives 100 miles to see me. Sleeps over and cuddles with me the entire night. Kisses me for a long time and at random times. Breaks plans with his friend to be with me instead. Hangs out with me in public, both before and after we get busy. Then he says he just wants to be friends with benefits. Do people usually do all this with their FWB??? Or does it sound like there are feelings involved too?
2006-12-26 19:15:00 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that he wants to get the milk for free without buying the cow! As long as you allow this, he's gonna eat it up. And you are going to be the one to get hurt!
2006-12-26 19:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by jen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well lets say if I had a friend that did this I would consider them much more than friends!
I have no friends that I kiss for long periods of time and at random times and I dont know any of my friends that do that with other friend either!
So either he is a little odd, but hopefully (if thats what you want!) what I suspect is that there are definitely feelings involved!
Sounds like its time to have a chat :-)
2006-12-27 03:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Matt D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you been to the other end of the 100 miles? Sounds like a married guy to me getting from you what he doesn't get at home anymore...
2006-12-27 03:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do people call this friends with benefits? It seems like it's lovers with issues.
You are with a non-committal person who is getting the "benefits" while you are being used and strung along.
In answer to your question.. yes, people do a lot to get laid. He already told you the scenario...
2006-12-27 03:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you, but if that's what he says then, maybe he just doesn't want a relationship right now, but he still wants to be with you. Does he see anyone else? Are you seeing anyone else?
100 miles?
2006-12-27 03:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've had a "FWB" for about 3 years on and off and i keep thinking that something will happen but i just keep putting myself done what i've done is kept it going cuz i dont want to lose him but i keep my eyes open for a boyfriend material guy
2006-12-27 03:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by bren_rocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he can't decide on whether he wants a relationship or not. Perhaps he feels that it would be a big strain if you all had a long distance relationship.
2006-12-27 03:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by elementcontroller 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he tells you he just wants to be FWB then tell him about the other guy you get busy(even if you don't) if he gets mad than yes if he dose not get mad than stop getting busy with him
2006-12-27 03:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said it himself, hee just wants the benefits. Guys don't do the whole subtle-hint thing women do, they are usually straightfoward.
2006-12-27 03:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Annalisa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants to have a flirt with you, he only wants you for a keep. when his is thruogh with you, you will see the real Guy in him. best of luck
2006-12-27 03:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋