from the UK to live. We hooked up coz I didn't think it would go anywhere & I've just come out of a long r'ship. (By the way, I learnt I can't do casual...) Things were really great (not boyfriend/girlfriend) but we agreed to be monogamous. 4 wks ago, he told me (b4 he knew me) he'd made plans for a UK ex-fling to come out for Xmas & that he hadn't known me long enough to cancel. He said he couldn't promise he wouldn't sleep with her & he'd like to see me in the new year after she left, however doesn't want to see me in the interim. He said didn't want to hurt anyone. I've swung from telling him 2 leave/not call me to txting him asking if he wants to catch up (I haven't seen him for 4 weeks). He's feeling a lot of pressure & doesn't like it. I know I managed it poorly, but have I ruined any chance now? We had plans to go to a concert in Feb - but won't contact him again. If he does phone in Jan, should I even bother with him? I really like him & want him to chase me? How do I do this?
2006-12-19
15:43:55
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