Hi everyone. Ok, I will make this as short and painless as possible. SO has 2 children from soon to be ex-wife. I have 1 child from previous marriage. I have contact with my ex and we share custody of my daughter. We both respect the other one and the time that we spend with her so we call each other maybe every other week to make sure that we are all on the same page.
My SO however talks to his ex daily, they share custody of the children when they children are with him she calls every night, and when they are with her he calls every night and at times other times during the day. (We were looking at engagement rings, and guess who calls?yep, the ex and because he is afraid that it may have something to do with the children he answers)If we are out to dinner, he answers. I have talked to him about this calmly. He understands my view point, but asks me what he is he suppose to do;he states that he is afraid that it is the children calling and he is also afraid to tell her not to call every night when he has the boys.
My question, is it selfish of me to think that the relationship between them should be different. Do I learn to live with schduling sex, dinner and engagement ring shopping around phone calls from her?
I love him deeply, but really thinking about calling it off at this point due to the stress that it causes.
Thanks for listening so far!!
2006-12-19
17:09:06
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Sweet T
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Marriage & Divorce