Last year I contacted my hs sweetie through a website. I wanted to apologize to him for things I’d done, that got him into trouble with my parents who had forbid me to see him. We’d gone out for 6 months before he got sent away to live with his father… hours away. One day, our relationship ended with a telephone call, and a misunderstanding. I eventually moved away to a different state, and grieved for the guy for two years. What we have discovered is that there was never an official breakup between us, and that we loved each other very much back then. I I was never able to “feel close” to anyone after him. I have been in an unhappy marriage for 13 years. My husband knows I talk to my ex on the phone. You can imagine how he feels about that. There is no way I can leave, I’ll lose my children. I’ve explained all this to my ex and he still calls, and I still call him. When I don’t call him, I feel heartache. Do I have to let go and start the grieving all over again?
2006-11-17
02:27:38
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