My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and lived together for 2. He cheated on me after our first year with another girl. (I cheated on him too the first MONTH we were together so I guess he was cheating on me for revenge or something). Anyway, he took me back, so it seemed right to take him back too. We started fresh and made it work. Im glad because I was really happy and everything was great. Then we got into a bad fight the other day and he went to her house (she lives down the street). Nothing happened according to everyone there (I trust them), he just came over to hang out. (I doubt he's done this before, we have a tight group of friends and I would've found out.) He admited he was wrong and apologized...
BUT now everytime we fight I will think he's going there, or when I go to school I will think he's over there, and I keep wondering why after 4 years he went there - its so random...
What's your advice?
Please dont just say "dump him", I'd love some real answers!
2006-11-13
23:25:59
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Marriage & Divorce