First my girl had some guy over to her apartment. I broke in the door and was arreasted for burgurly. we got back together and worked things out.we used to live together.and suppose to move back in.She just told me she isnt ready to move back in because she dont know if I can be trusted. I looked thru her phone and seen that she has been talking to her x. I asked her has she talked to any guys and she said no! so I told her I already knew she has been.what should I do ??
2006-11-13 23:22:36 · 8 answers · asked by dswiss707 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's pushing you to the brink of doing things that are getting you arrested??>>I say there's deff a problem here... Whether or not she's actually "doing" anything w/someone else is irrelevant-she obviously confused in her own right as to what she wants to do w/your relationship. For me, that sense of confusion would be enough to show me that the other person is not 100% vested into the relationship as I am.
If you really love her and want this to work, maybe just "separate" for a bit so that she has space and time to figure out what she wants. Which means for you, NO KICKING IN DOORS!!! lol.
During that time apart, you may actually realize yourself that your life doesn't totally "revolve" around her and that there is life outside of her...and then YOU'LL be the one ready to move on.
Sometimes it's best to not leave the decision on whether or not a relationship continues up to the one that's confused. You may have to be the one to do it so that whatever decision is made will be in your best interest.
2006-11-13 23:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem like you trust her. How can a relationship work without trust? Maybe stop going through her personal business and assess the relationship. Are you two really happy together? Why is there a huge lack of trust on both ends? Before your relationship can move on, you need trust.
2006-11-14 07:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by ~Anna~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her. If you have to spy on your lover, then it's time to end the relationship. You can't trust her anymore, and it's not right to spy on her. I think that she want's out of the relationship as well. Move on with your life and find someone new to love.
2006-11-14 07:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is trust on both sides I see. That relationship is going to work.
2006-11-14 07:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find yourself someone else who would love to be with u. why waste your time on someone who doesnt care for u n is bold enough to lie on your face. good luck with the new girl friend
2006-11-14 07:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit unreasonable. try comunicating with her. Ask her what she wants, if she still wants to be with you. Figure out what you want.
2006-11-14 07:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by bob boberty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave....if you cant trust each other you shouldnt be together.
2006-11-14 07:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both of you arent on the right track
she is not really into you....dig it
2006-11-14 07:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋