My boyfriend and i have lived together on and off for the past 2 years. My home is paid off, and therefore all that i pay is my utilities. He does not contribute anything to the bills, and has bought groceries twice since August that total around $300. He has had problems finding work, and seemed to have stopped looking. 95% of our outings like dinners etc etc..come out of my pocket, in addition to his expenses like bus fare, old tickets etc etc...In the last 4-6weeks i have given $600 cash for things that he needs. We need to get a car and he wants me to help. However, i'm the only with a job, and the only one saving anything. I really want to be there for him, but I'm finding that i cant even get things that i want for myself. Am I being selfish???
2006-11-08
02:45:23
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chocolate beauty
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