My fiancee got laid off about 4 months ago. At first it was cool, because we both worked a lot and never got to spend any quality time with eachother. But recently, it's been rough. He's been actively applying to jobs, however, the industry he's in is slowing down (real estate) and it's getting tougher and tougher to find a job. I know he's frusterated, and so am I. I could see why he's depressed, and try to be understanding toward him and his situation. However; he's gotten to the point where he doesn't want to do anything. All he does all day is lay in bed, watch television and talk on the phone. I come home from work to a filthy house; and when I nag at him about it, he says, " All you do is nag me." I'm at a complete loss. I really don't know what to do. I become this evil person when I don't want to be. I try my hardest to bite my tounge, but it's hard; I find myself saying some outlandish things that hurt his feelings just because I am frusterated. HELP!
2006-10-23
20:21:53
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danielle d
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Marriage & Divorce