when my husband told me about his affair with another woman i managed to accept it, i thought nothing really serious, it's just a physical attraction or maybe because he is just lonely because he works a thousand miles away and i only get to see him twice a year. it's not the first time so it nevem came to my mind that we will end up divorce after 16 years of marriage and has 2kids. but he did, he left us and married this woman.when he told me he wants divorce that was the only time i realized this is it. i have to do something. i screwed him at work. hoping his superior and his type of work will make him realize that he's doing the wrong thing but it didn't work. until i found out i was out of deeds. he has a new wife. i filed some serious charges, managed to send him back and put him in jail., i made him broke so he cant take care of his new wife financially. it's been 6months living in hell. now i heard his new wife wants to annul their marriage. what will i do to win him back?
2006-10-23 20:21:55 · 13 answers · asked by rozjames 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My advice is to leave him alone. You appeared to have done enough to him to sabotage his work, life and new marriage. He doesn't need that kind of "love." You need to grow up and realize that love is wanting the other person to be happy, no matter what happens. Move on and hope he doesn't do anything to get revenge on you.
2006-10-23 20:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After all this I doubt there's anything u can do to win him back. Besides, what kind of a marriage did u two have in the first place with him being thousands of miles away from u? There was simply too much distance between u two to even make it work. I hate to say this but u didn't have much of a marriage to begin with. I say let him go and move on with your life, which is what u should've done in the first place.
2006-10-24 03:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself for all your actions against him. I realized you are the woman scorned and have been done wrong by him. You invested 16 years into your marriage. I was married 15 years to my ex. What lesson is this going to teach your children what type of character you have as a person and as a mother. O my mommy ****** over my daddy real good. I will be the most surprised if your ex husband comes back to you. No wonder he found someone else and got rid of your ***.. It is a woman like you who give the rest of us women a bad name, the wrong kind of **** with no style and grace. You are just a bitter ole skank.
O'hock
2006-10-24 03:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by orcahock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt very much that he will return. First, he left you for another woman. I'm sure that this decision was not easy for him. Next, you "screwed" him. He won't forget that. I suggest you find another partner and get on with your life and that of your children. Your first mistake was living a thousand miles apart and only seeing him twice annually. The second was your nonchalant attitude toward the fact that he'd cheated before. The outcome was predictable.
2006-10-24 03:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Puppy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok let me get this straight. he lived 1000 miles from you, you only saw him twice a year, you had two kids,he cheated on you and divorced you and you got him locked up and you want him back? honey you have this question in the wrong section. It should be under needing mental health. There is so many other good men out there you can find someone who will treat you right. don't waste your time to go back and get in this same mess. i did the same thiong and it never works.
2006-10-24 03:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by marilee w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him back, you have got to make him forget all about the woman and think only of you. Perhaps to make him jealous first by speaking with a really hot guy you meet right in front of him. Someone that he always wanted to be like but never could be.
2006-10-24 03:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by lulu wasp 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should worry about how you can put yourself back together, not about how you can get him back. I don't mean to be a *****, but this whole situation sounds screwed up, it's unhealthy, you need to take care of yourself.
2006-10-24 03:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut feeling... actually... go back and read your question as someone else had wrote it. Then give yourself the answer. You are better than that. You need someone to be there for you and your children.
2006-10-24 03:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Shaunna H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last chance, you messed up before this time....Oral Sex to completion, and not just in bed, outdoors, in the car movies, in front of a porno at home, basically anywhere he wants it, Anal sex, if you are not doing it...get with it or someone will and you will lose him, BDSM, public sex, suggest dogging...loads of sites on the net..basically a happy man does not stray.give him sex whenever and wherever he wants xxxx you will be his Queen I promise you....oh! Ignore the religious nutters and fat puritan bitter singletons that post and the nerdy guys..they are creepy xx
2006-10-24 04:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lose some weight. You won't want him back anymore. Don't ask me how I know you're "large", I just do.
It's about you now. He'll do it again anyway if he comes back. Stop obsessing and start undressing! Woohoo, party ova hea,,, party ova theyy,,, BYOB oink, oink.
2006-10-24 03:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋