After 21 years, she has become less into sex as far as her involvement, hygene, weight and attitude. I have tried everything under the sun to get her to give sex some effort. She demands that I be attracted while giving me the worst of her (on purpose). It has been with a great sense of loss but I have given up on sex. I don't need it anymore and don't even like it. It in't fulfilling or pleasurable the way she does it. So how do I get her to expect the results of her actions. Example... If I don't pay my mortgage the bank will take the house. If she doesn't try to do anything to arrouse me, then why can't she just accept that I am not into sex anymore. I could be, but I can have a raging woody and when she comes near... bye-bye... she is such a turn off... and let me preempt your 'talk about it' comments. I have read every book, been to professional counselors and tried litterally hundreds of ways of presenting this to her. She gets pissed and says, "Jills husband doesnt need that!"
2006-10-23
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Marriage & Divorce