Ok - I'm not a prude, and neither is he. We've always been open about everything sexual, and I even share my embarassing fetishes with him. Recently, he's pulled away from me, and he has become VERY distant. I took a hunch tonight, and checked his computer - sure enough - there it was.
Like I mentioned before, we're not prudes. I've actively asked him to share his fantasies with me - but I was unprepared for some of the "barely legal" sites he has hidden in his cache.
My normally open minded self is sensing there may be a problem, but I don't know how to approach the subject with him. He's very sensitive to a lot of things, and no matter how gently I try to talk about some things with him, he puts up a cold front.
Should I forget it, and focus on my own life? We're starting to drift apart and we haven't had personal intimacy in over 9 months.
Any advice here?
2006-10-23
22:45:03
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