Do you think its wrong if a married couple had a very close relationship, but went out and slept with other people outside the relationship, if both husband and wife know its an "open" relationship, but dont share who they sleep with?
2006-10-23 22:42:00 · 13 answers · asked by dizzy s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why marry if you're going to sleep with someone else in the end?
it's morally wrong and you know it too..
2006-10-24 00:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having experienced 10 yrs in an OPEN marriage I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. I'm divorced from that lifestyle never to return to it again. The experience was not only demeaning but humilitating as well. The game of OPEN cheat and don't get caught is the worst experience I've ever had in my life. Not to mention the trips to the DR. when HE would bring something home----and of course share it with me---Numerous STD's...thank god---he didn't bring home HIV/AIDS!
Why be married----if you want an OPEN free relationship don't ever get married-----just be an ally cat and then you'll be free to CAT around everywhere you want to!
2006-10-23 23:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was forced into having an open relationship (Swinging). It did not work, it was just my ex-husbands way of saying he wanted to cheat on me and didn't want to have to lie about it. I went along with it for 2 years, and it totally ruined our lives together. It became an obsession and our whole world revolved around it, we lost time with our children, accumulated mountains of debt, drug and alcohol addictions, and now our house is going to be foreclosed on. One good thing did come from the swinging, I did meet my new boyfriend. He was swinging partner, so my ex got what he deserved. It was his idea to Swing and it backfired on his sorry ***.
2006-10-24 05:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by mysticmoons2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMg what is wrong with you people do you have no morals? Have you heard of stds? OMG if you want to sleep with other people get a divorce for god's sake. Man some people on here are just pond life ,real scum. You people are ill get help.
2006-10-24 00:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YUCK. Yeah I would call that wrong. Marriage is meant to be between just 2 people becoming 1 in the eyes of god.
2006-10-23 22:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think you have gotten all the negitive answer's you are going to get. but if it doesn't bother you an you are safe , you welcome this into your marriage ...then it is totaly up to you in what is right an wrong. i too was in an open relationship yrs. ago an it worked for us. the only reason we are apart to day was because our lives went in two different directions , two different states due to our jobs. so this is totaly on you what you like an what you want in your life. good luck ...
2006-10-24 00:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it would be wrong. The married people who do this do not realize how damaging this is to the relationship.
2006-10-23 22:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds strange to me, but if they are happy, then it's no one else's business really. i've been in a relationship before that we were into swinging, but that's different. You have to be a very secure person to let your spouse go out and have sex with others that you don't know who they are and anything else about them.
2006-10-24 03:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why be married you say it's OK but if one is doing it more than the other or I one of the parties becomes regular with someone else it will always course friction sounds disastrous to me.
2006-10-23 22:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its wrong cause you dont know who or what they are sleeping with and it only takes one time too get STD and pass it on.
2006-10-23 22:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ozark American 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋