All categories - 6 October 2006

I had a partner for 10 years who died suddenly of a heart-attack at the age of 39. There was no warning and it came as a complete shock to everyone.

That was six and a half years ago and I'm still grieving. I'm still living in the same house and leading pretty much the same lifestyle, but thinking that it's about time I did something new.

Do you think I should have got over it by now? If not, how long does it take?

Would it help if I moved?

2006-10-06 01:20:02 · 23 answers · asked by Mad Professor 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why in recent Muslim rally's across London do the Police stand by and watch whilst extremists tell politicians to leave their religious enclaves and demand the execution of Tony Blair. When if the boot was on the other foot and there were extremists on the streets demanding the heads of muslim's the police would be locking everybody up? Has political correctness gone too far?

2006-10-06 01:19:58 · 11 answers · asked by J B 2 in Politics

2006-10-06 01:19:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pets

A fantasy match:

If you could pick the other two remaining opponents, choose the stipulations and pick any referee, who and what would they be?

Which individual would win and why? Remember, this is a ‘fatal four-way’, not a tag team match.

Note: the remaining opponents and the special guest referee could be professional wrestlers, or politicians, or any other kind of world leaders.

Have fun picking your match!

2006-10-06 01:19:51 · 10 answers · asked by Yahoo user 4 in Wrestling

OK I HAVE BEEN CUSTODIAL PARENT FOR 10 1/2 YRS HE HAD PARTIAL HE ONLY WANTED TO BE WITH HIS KIDS ON HIS WEEKEND VISITS NEVER WANTED THEM MORE...HE WAS ONLY PAYING ME 50 AWEEK FOR FOUR BOYS FOR 10 YRS ,THE REASON WHY I ONLY RECIEVED 50 AWEEK WAS CAUSE HE TOLD ME HE WOULD GIVE UP HIS RIGHTS TO OUR BOYS I DIDNT WANT TO BE THE BLAME FOR THE KIDS NOT TO HAVE THERE FATHER SO I AGREED TO WHAT HE WANTED TO PAY .SO I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED FOR CUSTODY I GOT CUSTODIAL AND HE GOT PARTIAL HE AGREED TO EVERYTHING.IT WAS EVERY WEDNESDAY AND EVERYOTHER WEEKEND .WELL HE STUCK WITH IT FOR ABOUT A MONTH TOLD ME HE WAS DROPPING WEDNESDAYS CAUSE IT WAS TO MUCH.I GUESS IT WAS INTERFERING WITH HIS SINGLE LIFE I DIDNT CARE I HAD MORE TIME WITH MY SONS...I DID EVERYTHING DOC APPTS DENTIST ,ER RUNS WHEN THE BOYS GOT HURT I WOULD CALL HIM AND TELL HIM I WAS AT THE ER HE SAID WELL JUST CALL ME I AM SORRY BUT IF IT WAS ON THE OTHER END MY BUTT WOULD BE THERE .(RUNNING OUT OF ROOM WILL BE WRITING MORE)

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17 hours ago
LIKE I DID EVERYTHING AND STILL DO I TOOK CARE OF ALL OUR SONS NEEDS CLOTHES ,FOOD,SHELTER,DOCS,TOOK CARE OF THEM WHEN THEY WERE SICK WENT WITH MY ONE SON TO ALL HIS SURGERIES ETC....HIS FATHER DIDNT GO CAUSE HE SAID HE COULDNT GET OFF WORK TO BE THERE BUT THEN THE WEEK AFTER HIS FATHER WENT WITH HIS GF AND HER SON TO GET HIS FOOT CHECK BUT COULDNT BE THERE FOR HIS SONS SURGERY ON HIS KNEE AND IT WAS BAD.THIS IS THE FATHER AND GF THAT ACCUSED MY SON OF FAKING HIS INJURY WHOM HAD TO HAVE MAJOR SURGERY,ALSO THERE FATHER GRAB OUR SON BY THE THROAT AND YES I REPORTED TO THE DOCTORS AND SO ON HOPING THEY WOULD REPORT IT CAUSE I AM AFRAID OF MY EX HE WAS ABUSIVE TO ME WHILE WE WERE MARRIED I STILL FEARED HIM SO I WENT TO THE DOCS KNOWING THEY HAD TO REPORT IT .I DIDNT NEGLECT MY SON I HAD HIM CHECKED OUT AND TOLD THE DOC.JUST SO EVERYONE DOESNT THINK I AM A ROTTEN MOM I WANTED TO HURT HIM FOR HURTING MY SON .WELL MY TWO YOUNGER SONS STOPPED SEEING THERE FATHER SO HE STOPPED PAYING HIS CONTIN

17 hours ago
SO WHEN HE STOPPED PAYING HIS BIG 50 AWEEK WHICH DID NOT RAISE FOUR SONS I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED HIM FOR THE SUPPORT MY SONS NEEDED AND DESERVED WELL HE TURNED AROUND AND IS NOW TRYING TO SUE ME FOR CUSTODY WE WENT TO A COURT MEDIATOR WHO ORDER A HOME EVALUATION ...WE BOTH HAVE TO PAY 1050 WELL I PAID MY HALF ,HE DIDNT WE ARE GOING INFRONT OF A JUDGE THIS FRIDAY CAUSE HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT,,,,THIS IS A MAN WHOM IS STILL MARRIED TO HIS SECOND WIFE WHOM HE LEFT ONE NITE WENT TO A BAR AND NEVER WENT HOME LEFT HER WITH THERE 2 YR OLD SON AND SHE WAS 5 MONTHS PREGNANT...NOW HE IS SHACKED UP WITH HIS GF AND HER 2 KIDS IN A 2 BEDROOM HOME SHE HAS A 5 YR OLD GIRL WHOM SLEEPS IN THE BEDROOM WITH HIM AND HIS GF AND THE GF'S SON HAS HIS OWN ROOM HE IS 10 AND MY BOYS ARE ON THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR ...THEN WHEN HE GETS HIS SECOND SET OF CHILDREN FROM HIS WIFE THEY SLEEP IN THE BEDROOM WITH MY EX AND HIS GF ALSO THEY ARE 3YR OLD AND 1.

17 hours ago
MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM THE WAY HE FELT NOW THEY DONT SPEAK MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS EVERYTHING FROM WHAT HE DID TO ME AND MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS WHEN HE GRABBED HIM BY THE THROAT CAUSE HE WANTED TO QUIT BASEBALL,AND HE TOLD HIM HE REM WHEN HE GRABBED ME AND ALMOST CHOKED ME TO DEATH INFRONT OF HIM HE SAID DAD IF I WOULDNT HAVE SCREAMED YOU WOULD HAVE KILLED HER ,WELL MY EX TURNED TO HIM AND SAID YOUR MOM BEAT ME MY SON LAUGHED AND SAID DAD YOUR 6 1 300 PDS.MOM IS 5 6 160 AND I WAS THERE I REMEMBER IT ALL ...THEN HE TOLD MY EX ALL HE CARED ABOUT WAS HIS NEW GF AND HER KIDS WELL HE TOLD HIM THATS RITE THEY ARE MY LIFE NOW I HAVE NO OTHER LIFE THEN THEM .WELL THEY HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE FATHERS DAY....THEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF ABOUT HOW HE FELT TELLING HIS DAD HE DOESNT THINK ITS RIGHT FOR HIM TO TRY TO TAKE THEM FROM SOMEONE WHOM HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR THEM AND THE WOMEN WHO TOOK CARE OF US ON HER OWN FOR 10 YRS WITH NO HELP FROM YOU .

17 hours ago
I WAS SCARED WHEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF I SAID MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT HAVE SAID THAT THEY MIGHT USE THAT AGAINST ME MY SON SAID MOM HOW CAN THEY I SAID HOW I FELT...SO I CALLED MY ATTORNEY SHE SAID YOU CAN NOT CONTROL WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR 14 YR OLDS MOUTH...WELL HE DIDNT PAY HIS HALF OF THE HOME EVAL SO HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT ,,I PAID MINE THAT SHOULD GO TO SHOW I LOVE MY KIDS AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR THEM ....I WENT TO ALL THE SCHOOL MEETINGS AND WENT TO GET ALL MY BOYS HELP THAT THEY NEEDED ,,I HAVE TWO SONS WITH ADHD SO THEY STRUGGLE SO I GO TO THE SCHOOLS GET HELP OF COURSE HIS FAVORITE SAYING IS THEY DONT NEED ANY HELP THEY ARE JUST LAZY AND THEY NEED A FOOT IN THERE ***.

WELL ON XMAS VACATION LAST YR I ASKED FOR ANY KIND OF HOMEWORK THAT WILL HELP WITH THERE GRADES YOU KNOW MAKE UP WORK IT WAS STACKED FOR ALL MY SONS SO I ASKED AHOLE IF HE COULD HELP YEA HE HELPED I GOT A CALL FROM THE SCHOOL STATING THEY WOULDNT BE GETTING CREDIT I SAID WHY NOT

17 hours ago
CAUSE THE SCHOOL SAID THERE FATHER DID IT FOR THEM THE ONLY TIME IN 10 YRS I ASKED FOR HELP THAT IS WHAT I GOT...I AM SCARED I AM A GOOD MOM I DONT DRINK I DONT SMOKE I DO NOT GO OUT PARTYING UNLIKE HIM I STAY AT HOME WITH MY SONS THAT IS MY PLACE THAT IS WHERE I BELONG..THEY ARE MY LIFE....SO DO YOU THINK HE HAS ANY CHANCE...THANKS

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1 day ago
IM SORRY BUT I NEVER DID ANYTHING WRONG HE SUED ME CAUSE I SUED HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ..HE ONLY PAID ME 5O AWEEK FOR 10 YRS FOR FOUR BOYS THERE OLDER AND THEY NEED MORE ..I DID IT ON MY OWN FOR 10 1/2 YRS IF HE THINKS HIS BIG 50 AWEEK RAISED HIS SONS HE NEEDS TO GET A REALITY CHECK

2006-10-06 01:19:48 · 7 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1 in Family

2006-10-06 01:19:46 · 20 answers · asked by Mike J 1 in Anthropology

2006-10-06 01:19:35 · 12 answers · asked by sene 1 in Amusement Parks

Thank you

2006-10-06 01:19:28 · 15 answers · asked by zara c 4 in Other - Computers

i'm just curious if once a girl is a ho, will she always be a ho. I SAY YES.

2006-10-06 01:19:24 · 14 answers · asked by DeeeezNuts 1 in Singles & Dating

Not sure if it's Chinese or Japanase....

2006-10-06 01:19:23 · 12 answers · asked by yafit k 4 in Languages

anyone can answer this. I had this girl at work who was very hot and sexy. I only liked her as a friend though we were cool at work and had great chemistry. Well I went to her house and watched soem movies. I am so use to having female friends, I guess I forgot when I was being hit on. I mean i got close ot her and all but it was jsut a hugging embrace friendshipwise and all..
Well after the movie was over wiht, she said she had to go to bed cool i left. Monday at work, she like seemed upset and me . She wanted to avoid me and all.
I think she wanted me to jump her that night but I didnt. If so, and if anyone was in the situtation, would you have taken advantage of that situtation?

2006-10-06 01:19:14 · 10 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 01:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by prameet p 2 in Movies

my teacher gave us this home work i'm in third gradefor crying out loud it's too hard man

for language this week you will be writing about apples in honor of johnny appleseed birthday. think of an apple probably the most common of all fruits for what are they used ? what do they look like?what do they taste like?
now think of many and UNUSUAL uses for apples. then write a paragraph in which you expalin just how useful an apple REALLY is! be crative but at the sametime be realistic

2006-10-06 01:19:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Homework Help

In the past, people didn't believe in germs, because they couldn't see them. Could there be a reason for evil that would satisy the scientific & religious communities?

2006-10-06 01:18:57 · 10 answers · asked by Calvin James Hammer 6 in Religion & Spirituality

civilizations that have worshipped the Sun and Mother Earth
why might such practices occur worldwide and do these concerns have any relevancy to the twenty first century (plz anyone that knows about that topic help me out)

2006-10-06 01:18:53 · 1 answers · asked by Jose P 1 in History

Ive been having the Hic-cups at least 3 times a day.
Can anyone help me on this?

2006-10-06 01:18:46 · 15 answers · asked by ♡♡Gneaseach♡♡ 3 in Other - Health

any ideas??

2006-10-06 01:18:38 · 13 answers · asked by jean marc l 6 in Other - Entertainment

2006-10-06 01:18:36 · 11 answers · asked by jennie m 1 in Parenting

2006-10-06 01:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by paps 1 in Diet & Fitness

i'm working on an health porject!!!

2006-10-06 01:18:33 · 15 answers · asked by frost_icing 1 in Pregnancy

2006-10-06 01:18:26 · 23 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Other - General Health Care

2006-10-06 01:18:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - United Kingdom

2006-10-06 01:18:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Investing

we're both 15 and have been going out for a year...
he seems really depressed thyese days...
what can i do to cheer him up?

2006-10-06 01:17:58 · 6 answers · asked by Gia Star 2 in Friends

2006-10-06 01:17:55 · 2 answers · asked by sunflower 2 in Software

Any info???? Is it true or false.

2006-10-06 01:17:50 · 18 answers · asked by sexylove 2 in Music

2006-10-06 01:17:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Politics & Government

This is a members only site so only people who are truely devoted to fine poetry may up load their poems. If you would like to become a member please click on the link below.

http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/MBS_Poetry/

2006-10-06 01:17:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Philosophy