anyone can answer this. I had this girl at work who was very hot and sexy. I only liked her as a friend though we were cool at work and had great chemistry. Well I went to her house and watched soem movies. I am so use to having female friends, I guess I forgot when I was being hit on. I mean i got close ot her and all but it was jsut a hugging embrace friendshipwise and all..
Well after the movie was over wiht, she said she had to go to bed cool i left. Monday at work, she like seemed upset and me . She wanted to avoid me and all.
I think she wanted me to jump her that night but I didnt. If so, and if anyone was in the situtation, would you have taken advantage of that situtation?
2006-10-06 01:19:14 · 10 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, different stroke for different folks! she wanted a hard stroke and you missed that link...sorry you were so caught up with this friendly thingies...i suggest you stop isolating yourself with friendly wishy washy with girls and try to be sensitive to those people around you like this girl...
anyway, the deed was done...come up to her and be cool....just try to find out what the fuss is all about...i don't think you acted like a fool that night, it just didn't happen, you had your lucid interval which is quite unforgivable...so, try to win her attention back again by being extra sweet...suggest a movie again at her flat, you tell her you enjoyed the coziness between you and you wanted to spend some time together again....if she agrees,here's your 2nd chance and don't blew it if you like her... please be attentive! and don't come here again on Y!Answers asking if you missed something...you definitely did clueless boy..LOL
2006-10-06 01:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't have very much respect for your friendship and needs to communicate better. If she wanted you to jump her, she should of tried a little harder. How in the heck would you know, after all, you thought you were just friends. The only reason that you should have done it, would be because you wanted to, but it sounds to me you had a little more respect than she did, especially now that she is upset, and maybe because of what happened. If she is a true friend, I would just confront her, if she confesses that's what she wanted, explain to her, you didn't want to cross that line unless she wanted to, and by her reactions that night, you didn't know for sure.....Good luck and take care! You did the right thing.....RESPECTFULLY!
2006-10-06 01:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and missed the signals also. She wanted to be wanted by you. This can be easily solved by talking to her alone. Be clear whether you want to start dating or just be friends, don't mix signals.
In my case she was my best friends sister and I had a girlfriend, she and I became closer friends when I didn't take advantage of a situation.
2006-10-06 01:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did a good thing, a fling in office is wrong work should stay seperately from private life never mix those two
2006-10-06 01:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends...she could have been setting you up you know. You should ask her if the two of you can do that again sometime and tell her you enjoyed it immensly.
2006-10-06 01:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wats the point of asking if it already happened, thrs nothing u can do about it now
2006-10-06 01:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by emaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like she wanted it pretty bad. and she was mad because she had to use BOB instead.
2006-10-06 02:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never dip your pen in company ink
2006-10-06 01:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing worng!
2006-10-06 01:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by babybeast 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her
2006-10-06 01:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by mark r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋