i was sexually intimate with this guy for about 9 months on and off. when we first met he made it clear that we are just friends who occasionally sleep together and see other people. i found that to be honest and refreshing and agreed to it. now recently he found out that i started seeing someone else through a friend of his. he confronted me about it and i said "yes i am". he said he didn't care about the fact that i'm seeing other people but that i didn't tell him about it first. so he said that we can no longer sleep together but can remain friends. i explained to him that i wasn't sleeping with anyone but him but he said it didn't matter, that when i get rid of the other guy then maybe we can resume our intimacy. i didn't find this to be fair of him to ask of me because it was his idea to just have occasional sex and be friends with no strings attached. he is not the kind of guy i would chose as a serious boyfriend, but a great listener and lover and i'd hate to loss that
2006-09-13
09:19:09
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