my friend wants to go to the same college as me. i don't want her to. she is too clingy and pessamistic about everything. i want to get away from her and thought that going to a private college would distract her from going. (i really really REALLY want to go to this college ~St. Mary's University in Winona, MN ~ the college would be great for me, and i know i'm supposed to be there.) my friend would get nothing out of it and i know would blame me for it. the only reason that she wants to go is b/c i'm going. she still thinks that we're bestfriends, but in all reality we haven't been in four years. i've changed dramaically, but she hasn't even walked a step toward change. she brings everyone and everything down. i can understand her viewpoint, but she needs to break free and be on her own for once. she can't see that i'm not going to always be there for her. how do i tell her "no"? i dont want to hurt her feelings, but she needs to know that i don't want her there with me.
2006-09-13
09:14:13
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