Ok. Ive known him since I wasd 16. Im almost 23 now. We have been on and off since for all I know. I havent seen him in a month, but I talked to him last night on the phone, and he wanted me to come over to night to talk and bla bla...so ive called him two times already today, and hes not picking up. Do you think I should just show up at his house tonight?? I need Help im going crazy...
2006-09-13 09:15:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
move on girl
2006-09-13 12:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not too worried about you if you haven't spoken in a month... Its probably just been a while since he has been laid and decided to try and make it easy for himself and give you a try since your obviously still attracted to him. I would give him the cold shoulder especially if he can't even answer the phone. Let him call you back, no more calling him because your making yourself look desperate at the fact your jumping at his first offer he throws at you.. You should say jump and him ask how high? :) Seriously, don't just show up!!
2006-09-13 16:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by chinadoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no there are two sides to it ,I think he is playing a power game with you (which is normal male behavior),it could also be that he got him self a bit into strife and he is not sure about you.
Go there with reservations probe a little and don't let him see that you are too keen.Then work it all over in your head if you have still doubts work on that,remember love makes one blind.
Take care!
2006-09-13 16:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go ahead cause if you don't you'll be saying what if? Now be careful what you find when you get there cause if you guys have been on & off he might be occupied with someone else. If you told us what the off & on was all about I could tell you if you was just a booty call or not.
2006-09-13 16:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, don't go over there. He made you wait...and thats not cool to have you sitting there thinking about him and everything. When he calls you back, give him a taste of his own medicine. This sounds like a game, I know, and it probably is...but the fact of the matter is that people don't know what its like if they've never had it done to them... Be strong!
2006-09-13 16:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the bearer of bad news.......but he is not that into you. If he was he would pick up/call you etc.,
Do yourself a huge favour and let him chase you for a change. If he doesn't then at least you know and you can give your love to a guy who wants and deserves you!
Best of luck
2006-09-13 16:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really seriously interested, then dont run after him - he will come after you if he's keen enough.
Last thing you should do is to appear 'available' at the drop of a hat.
If he doesn't chase YOU then look for other fish in the sea.
2006-09-13 16:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by dougal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think you should go over to his house, since he wanted you to, so you'll be doing him a favour.
Anyway, keep trying to get in contact with him, call every half and hour or so.
2006-09-13 16:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymously Anonymous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you talked did you set a specific time and place? If so, then yes ~ if not, wait for him to call you back. Don't be pushy, play hard to get. Give him something to think about
2006-09-13 16:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by JUNONNKI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that on again and then off, maybe there's a reason for that, don't sweat him, go and date around, get crazy and he'll strangely be even more attracted to that. Good luck!
2006-09-13 16:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by PanamaJack 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to answer your question when I don't understand you. " since for all I know" & "bla bla" Don't you know any words that describe what you mean?
2006-09-13 16:28:12 · answer #11 · answered by rhymingron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋