Ummm... I don't refer to him as lover in public. I call him that only when it's him and I together. I would never introduce him as my "lover". Only because I can see the expression on my families face if I told them "This is my lover". LOL! They'd be like your not a virgin!??!?! HAHAHHA!!! Anyway , no I wouldn't. Cute pet name but no, not in public.
2006-09-13 09:23:37
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answered by * Wishfulthinker * 2
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Lover makes me think of a person using someone for sex not being in love.
I don't have a boyfriend and never had one so maybe I'd use boyfriend. I can't imagine me saying lover.
2006-09-13 09:22:28
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answered by missgigglebunny 7
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It is either an old or a more serious term. I use it, but never in a serious tone, it's always a joke that I'm calling him my lover.
2006-09-13 09:22:10
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answered by Anonymous
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No....to me the term "my lover" demeans my relationship as he is so much more than the source of my sexual gratification. I normally call him my fiance MY PARTNER.
2006-09-13 09:24:04
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answered by Natural_Woman 4
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No, do you say you are courting too? I just say my bloke. That's probably an English thing to do though.
2006-09-13 09:21:59
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answered by claire 5
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No! It's really no body's business but ours! Unless you want people to know who you are f-cking!
2006-09-13 09:28:30
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answered by Al Cat 1
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I think I should get myself a gf first. Then I'll tell u.
2006-09-13 09:21:58
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answered by brother from QG 3
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Whatever Shaniqua....
2006-09-13 09:21:45
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answered by Sally Pepsi 4
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Bonjour...
Lover is a little inpersonal, but if that is your term, then use it.
2006-09-13 09:26:25
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answered by O Jam 3
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No. Only gay men from the eighties say that.
2006-09-13 09:21:32
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answered by miguelitabonita 4
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